becoming a dad....

[xZack487]

so i learned a couple a days ago im going to be a father i just got a bigger apartment and i have a couple thousand saved up right now it was my ex that got preggnant with my kid so we got back together and we live with each other again pain in the butt but its for the kid is there any tips from anyone on here about raising a child and dealing with a pregnant women lol?also just found out my 16 year old cousin is pregnant so i have to help her to since her boyfriend doesent have a job any tips with that?

 

[Misery]

Jump off the golden gate.

 

[DM 951RPN]

Congrats, and first thing, you don't have to stay with ur girl just cus she's pregnant, if you love her its coo, but if not, you'll just end up hating yourself and her. Second, patience for her and the baby, while she's pregnant it will get crazy and she will drive u nuts, but be patient and try to remain calm, same when the baby arrives, the first year will be the craziest but after that u should have ur shit locked down, and third, teamwork is key, one person can only do so much till they go crazy as a team shit will be easier. What ever happens just remember ur kid will only be as good as u want him to be, so make sure ur there for them in any way u can.

 

[DM Raiden]

r u sure itz urs

 

[DM Blazer]

yea, not trying to be a dick but if its an ex, are you sure its yours or was it like a spur of the moment let me bang my ex kind of thing and this was the outcome lol. You dont have to be with her to be something for the child. You can help her but dont have to live with her, for example paying child support, custody 50/50. Its up to you.

 

[xZack487]

its a loong story but im positive its mine and yea i know i havent decided yet she doesent rlly have a place to stay so i cant have her gettin hurt with my kid in her and yea rpn its gonna be hard stayin calm through all this but i plan on doing my best and ill always be there for my kid no matter what

 

[Misery]

Golden Gate Bridge option is always their young grasshopper.

 

[xZack487]

ill think about it ^

 

[Misery]

Possibly jumping off the Rocky Mountains to if you want to feel pain while your falling. Pick your poison.

 

[DM Toonaami]

Possibly jumping off the Rocky Mountains to if you want to feel pain while your falling. Pick your poison.

You should like, abort yourself anthony.

 

[DM Marine]

shiiiiiiiiiieeeet

 

[DM Kinger]

Hey man I already talked to you, but make it so she don't hate u, and so ur kid won't hate u. Believe me it can shitty real fast. Of course I know nothing about the pregnancy, so good luck.

 

[DM DHomeboy]

dude zack i still thought you were like 15 lol

 

[xZack487]

same to you whats ur age?

 

[DM Toonaami]

Make sure its yours.

 

[xZack487]

im 99 percent sure its mine if it aint i have no idea how webe been round each other for awhile all day but im still gonna go get it tested just incase i dont want no mistakes

 

[DM RC-blazer]

Make sure its yours.

And

Hey man I already talked to you, but make it so she don't hate u, and so ur kid won't hate u. Believe me it can shitty real fast. Of course I know nothing about the pregnancy, so good luck.

That's all I can really think of Bro, take it easy, we're here for you.

 

[DM DHomeboy]

same to you whats ur age?

I'm 19 lol